Komentaryong Sumisipi para sa Mga Kawikaan 1:8

King Solomon warns people in this verse to try and move within circles of scholars and at the same time to try and avoid keeping company with fools. The reason he uses the expression הולך, is that a person should always walk behind the scholars, become familiar with them, and consider himself as an adjunct to them. He should make of the scholars leaders for his “head.” Anyone who practices this virtue cannot fail to become wise himself.
On the other hand, anyone who habitually mingles with fools will wind up causing harm to his own head, i.e. he will become “broken.” Basically, this verse in Proverbs describes the damage which results from keeping company with fools and the advantage which accrues to a person from the company of scholars. It is a fact that while someone who mingles with the scholars will benefit by such an association, the scholar will not suffer by it at all. This is the reason the Torah has been compared by David to a light (candle), seeing that an unlimited number of people can get light from this candle without the light of the candle becoming dimmed. This is the meaning of Psalms 119, 108 נר לרגלי דברך, ואור לנתיבתי’ “Your word is a lamp at my feet, a light for my path.”
Our sages in Yalkut Shimoni (this book was not at the disposal of the author. Ed) comment on this verse in Proverbs that the matter may be compared to someone who enters a perfumery store. His clothing will absorb some of the fragrances in that store although he did not make a purchase of any of the products that are for sale there. In other words, the owner of that store provided a service for the browser without making a sale. Similarly, the mere fact that one is in the presence of scholars results in something rubbing off on those who make a point of being in such company. Solomon describes that the opposite is true when one frequents the haunts of fools. Not only is their presence not beneficial, but it is even harmful to those who are not of their ilk.
The expression כסילים which Solomon applies to these fools are people who deliberately choose negative virtues, indulge in physical pleasures as their main purpose in life and who at the same time despise and ridicule people concerned with moral/intellectual pursuits. Such people do not qualify for admonition as they belong to one of the three categories of people who are not to be admonished. They are 1) כסילים, fools, 2) לצים, scoffers, 3) רשעים, wicked people. Concerning category one Solomon said (Proverbs 23,9) “do not speak to a fool; he will disdain your sensible words.” Concerning the scoffer, Solomon said (Proverbs 9,8) “do not admonish the scoffer lest he hate you.” Concerning the wicked, Solomon said (Proverbs 9,7) “rebuking a wicked person one hurts oneself.” Just as the very company of scholars is like an open invitation to serve the Lord, so the company of the other types of people we mentioned is like an invitation to reject the service of the Lord. The Torah writes in Deut. 7,4 “for he will lead astray your son (grandson) from following Me. The Torah spoke about the results of intermarriage of a Jewish girl with a Gentile. Although, technically speaking, the children of such a union will be Jews, the influence of the Gentile father and his family will estrange them to Judasim.
For all the above considerations David commenced his Book of Psalms with praise for the people who resist keeping company with the habitual sinners, and who instead make the Torah of G-d the object of their ambition, preoccupying themselves with it both by day ad by night (Psalms 1,1-2).
Solomon followed in the footsteps of his father when he commenced the Book of Proverbs (1,8) with the words שמע בני מוסר אביך, “listen to the instruction of your father my son; etc.” He continued immediately by warning that we should not expose ourselves to the seductive words of the wicked (1,10).
Our patriarch Avraham made every effort to observe the eventual laws of the Torah and the sacrificial services; our sages illustrated this when they said (Yuma 28) that he even observed such rabbinic ordinances as עירוב תבשילים, ensuring that he had cooked and baked food in the house for the Sabbath which follows on the heels of a festival so that preparation of food on the festival itself would not be viewed as exploiting a day when work is forbidden to prepare for the Sabbath. Avraham faced the dilemma of keeping away from wicked people, people who were the cause of truly free choice of worship having become impossible. Once you have become a true heretic (compare Maimonides Hilchot Teshuvah) you are not given a chance to repent). This is why G-d told him to move away from such people so that he would not become infected by them. G-d sent him away from his land, his birthplace to a land which He was going to show him (once he had set out to leave his home).
According to Tanchuma 3 on Lech Lecha, Avraham was not aware of the stench caused by the people amongst whom he lived as his environment was similar to a graveyard which had been sprinkled with a bottle of spikenard oil which neutralized the stench which emanates from there. How did G-d deal with this problem? He took Avraham from place to place and acquainted him with the different smells of the universe. In this manner Avraham was able to appreciate what was wrong in the world, and he would be trained not to become overwhelmed by the stench caused by the lifestyles of his contemporaries. Then came the point when G-d said to Avraham: “remove yourself from them and do not become dirtied by them.” This is the meaning of the words לך לך, i.e. “it is time that you by yourself.” The repetition of the letters לך לך allude to the word לכלך, dirt. G-d did not want him to become dirtied by his surroundings.
This was the first of the ten trials Avraham had to undergo; he successfully coped with all of them. The final and greatest trial was when G-d told him to offer up his son Yitzchak on Mount Moriah. At that time G-d again introduced the trial with the words לך לך in order to compare his first trial to his last trial. The commandment of which the Torah speaks here at the beginning of chapter 12 was issued while Avraham was in Charan as this was his country and his birthplace. Concerning that place Avraham said later (23,2 when he instructed Eliezer to get a wife for Yitzchak): “but go only to my country and to my birthplace!” It was certainly a great trial for him to leave his country and the place he had been born and raised in, the place where he had dwelled with his whole family, and to go to an entirely unknown country.
Remember that prior to G-d’s communication to Avraham telling him to move away from home, it would have been appropriate for the Torah to tell us something about Avraham’s virtues, just as the Torah had done before it reported that G-d issued commands to Noach before him. We must assume that the reason the Torah did not do so was because it had already hinted previously that Avraham was a person of exceptional qualities when the Torah referred to אור כשדים, as we explained on 11,28.

A Kabbalistic approach: the words שלח תשלח את האם are a reference to the emanation בינה, the source from which the lower seven emanations derive their spiritual input in every seven year (שמטה) cycle to renew the face of the earth. The earth is the קן העולם, the nest of the world. It is known as אם העולם, “mother of the nest (world),” like the “mother bird,” seeing it hatches all creatures.
You will find the following comment in the Sefer Habahir item 104: Rabbi Rechumai said the reason that the Torah commands שלח תשלח את האם, “be sure to dispatch the mother,” whereas it does not say that one must dispatch the father bird, is to render recognition and give honor to the “mother” of the world seeing that the emanation בינה is perceived as the emanation everyone calls out for as we know from Proverbs 2,3 כי אם לבינה תקרא, “for you call out for insight.” [This may also be an allusion to Proverbs 1,8: ואל תטוש תורת אמך “do not abandon the teachings of your mother.” Ed.]
The emanation בינה as the emanation immediately “above” the lower seven emanations each of which symbolizes one of the seven days of creation, is perceived as the mother, i.e. the one giving birth to these other seven emanations.
Concerning the words ואת הבנים תקח לך the same Rabbi Rechumai writes that it refers to the בנים she has raised. This is a reference to the seven days of the week and the seven days of Sukkot. Thus far Sefer Habahir.
The dispatch of the mother bird legislated here applies only to pure birds, i.e. the ones permitted for consumption by Jews. This is a compliment and a form of religious service for these birds as they are considered above and beyond the domain of the seven days of creation, a domain which has not been completed (limited) by a number being given to it. [The reference appears to be to the emanation בינה, which is “higher” than the seven emanations below it. Ed.] A parallel to this is found in Psalms 147,8 ולתבונתו אין מספרת, “its insight has not been assigned a number such as have the days (which would limit it). Not only the emanation בינה but also the tenth emanation מלכות, (from כתר down) is known as אם as we know from the fifth commandment כבד את אביך ואת אמך, a commandment addressed to people in that sphere. [I assume that the word ואת in that commandment provides the linkage between בינה and מלכות. Ed.]
Our sages in Berachot 35 citing Proverbs 28,24 where Solomon lambasts those who rob father and mother, speak about man robbing G’d (in connection with enjoying food etc., without first reciting a benediction). The reason the simile is extended to both father and mother [who cannot both represent G’d. Ed.] is that “father” refers to Hashem, whereas “mother” refers to כנסת ישראל, the spiritual concept of the people of Israel.
The Torah promises long life as the reward for fulfilling both the commandment of honouring father and mother and the commandment of dispatching the mother bird. The only difference in the wording of the reward is that in connection with honouring father and mother the “long life” is promised על האדמה, an expression repeated in connection with having true weights (Deut. 25,15). In connection with our commandment the words על האדמה “on the earth” are missing, suggesting that the Torah speaks of extra terrestrial life in the hereafter, or as the sages put it “in a world which is all long life.”
The meaning of the words והארכת ימים is a reference to the תאריך אף מן הימים, “you will also enjoy other days,” i.e. after the world limited to ששת ימים, the six days of creation has come to an end.

כי איש איש אשר יקלל, proof that I, G’d, am so insistent that your sanctity be manifest by your seed being genealogically pure is that the penalty for non observance is the execution of the person who curses his parents. The normal scenario which leads to a son or daughter cursing their parents has to do with legitimacy or otherwise of their offspring. When a son or daughter are the product of unions forbidden under the laws of incest, children of such unions have little reason to practice the commandment to honour their parents as it was from their parents that they learned to ignore Torah legislation. Solomon’s well known instruction שמע בני מוסר אביך ואל תטוש תורת אמך, “heed the moral instruction of your father, and do not ignore the teachings of your mother” (Proverbs 1,8) are most difficult to honour when they know they have seen the light of day only because their parents chose to ignore this very instruction.

For a commandment is a candle, and the Torah is light Just as light always illuminates, so does the merit of the Torah stand for a person forever, but the merit of the commandment is only for a limited time, like the light of a candle. Another explanation: For a commandment is a candle, etc. The command of the father is a candle. Whoever fulfills the command of his father is as though he takes a candle in his hand to light a dark place, and if he loses anything there he finds it by its light; similarly, whoever fulfills his mother’s instruction—it is light to him, and so [Scripture] states (verse 20): “and forsake not the instruction of your mother.” It is certain that this verse speaks of the commands of one’s father and mother, for it is written (20:20): “If one curses his father or mother, his candle will be put out in the blackest darkness.” Now if a person’s candle goes out when he does not fulfill the commandments of his parents, conversely when he fulfills the command, his candle lights up (Rabbi Joseph Kara).