אִם־לֹ֤א תֵדְעִי֙ לָ֔ךְ הַיָּפָ֖ה בַּנָּשִׁ֑ים צְֽאִי־לָ֞ךְ בְּעִקְבֵ֣י הַצֹּ֗אן וּרְעִי֙ אֶת־גְּדִיֹּתַ֔יִךְ עַ֖ל מִשְׁכְּנ֥וֹת הָרֹעִֽים׃ (ס)
你這女子中最美麗的啊，你若不知道，就出去跟隨羊群的蹄跡，在牧人們的帳棚旁牧放你的山羊羔。
Tosefta Ketubot
The additional food is his, but the additional rags are hers. A rich man—she goes up with him; but a poor man—she does not go down with him. A case: For the daughter of Nakdimon ben Gurion, the Hakhamim set up for her 500 golden dinars every day for her perfume fund and she was only waiting for her levir! She even made light of it and said to them: This is what you should give to your daughters! Said Rabbi Lazar bar Rabbi Tzadok: I will see in comfort if I saw (sic! correction based on Ehrfurt manuscript) her gathering barley from underneath the horses' hooves in Akko! I recited about her this verse: "If you did not know you, fairest of women!" (Shir Hashirim 1:8).