אֹֽהֲבַ֨י ׀ וְרֵעַ֗י מִנֶּ֣גֶד נִגְעִ֣י יַעֲמֹ֑דוּ וּ֝קְרוֹבַ֗י מֵרָחֹ֥ק עָמָֽדוּ׃
Meine Freunde und meine Genossen stehen fern von meiner Pflege, und meine Nächsten stehen von weitem.
Rashi on Psalms
stand aloof from my affliction Those who appear to me as lovers in time of their pleasure, and when they see that the affliction comes upon me, they do not stand up for me in the time of my strait, but stand aloof and do not aid me.
Rashi on Psalms
and those close to me who showed themselves to be close to me.