לְ֭מַעַן אַחַ֣י וְרֵעָ֑י אֲדַבְּרָה־נָּ֖א שָׁל֣וֹם בָּֽךְ׃
Um meiner Brüder und Freunde willen lass mich Frieden verkünden über dich.
Zohar
Those (defects from which the righteous suffer) are called 'sufferings of love', because they are caused by love and not by the man himself. They are of love because the light of the smaller love was impaired when rejected by the greater love. Therefore, the righteous are her companions and share her flaw. Happy is their portion in this world and in the World to Come, for they merited to be her friends, as it is written of them: "For my brethren and companions' sakes" (Tehilim 122:8).