Midrash for Ruth 3:10

“He said: Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter; you have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning, not to follow the youths, whether poor or wealthy” (Ruth 3:10).
“At midnight I will rise to thank You because of Your righteous ordinances” (Psalms 119:62). Rabbi Pinḥas in the name of Rabbi Eliezer ben Yaakov: A harp and a lyre were placed alongside David’s head and when midnight would arrive he would rise and play them. Rabbi Levi said: A harp was suspended…²⁰⁸A north wind would blow and play the harp at midnight, awakening David, who would then arise and study Torah until morning (Eikha Rabba 2; Berakhot 3b). “Because of Your righteous ordinances [mishpetei tzidkekha]” – the punishments [shefatim] that you brought upon Pharaoh, as it is stated: “The Lord afflicted Pharaoh with great afflictions” (Genesis 12:17), and the kindnesses [tzedakot] that You performed for Abraham and Sarah.
Alternatively, “because of Your righteous ordinances” – the punishments that You brought upon the Egyptians, and the kindnesses that You performed with our ancestors in Egypt. They had no mitzvot in whose performance they could engage so they could be redeemed, and You gave them two mitzvot in which they could engage and be redeemed, and they are: The blood of the paschal offering and the blood of circumcision. Rabbi Levi said: On that night the blood of the paschal offering was mixed with the blood of circumcision, [and this allowed the Israelites to be redeemed,] as it is stated: “I passed by you, and saw you wallowing in your blood, I said to you: In your blood, live; I said to you: In your blood, live” (Ezekiel 16:6).
Alternatively, “because of Your righteous ordinances” – the punishments that You brought upon the Ammonites and Moavites, and the kindnesses that You performed with my grandfather and grandmother,²⁰⁹The verse in Psalms was stated by David, a descendant of Boaz and Ruth. as had he [Boaz] quickly uttered one curse to her, from where would I have descended? But You inspired him to bless her, as it is stated: “Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter.”
“The trembling of man brings a snare; but one who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” (Proverbs 29:25). Rabbi Akiva was departing to Rome, [and] he said to a member of his household: ‘Go purchase for me an item that is equally appreciated by all.’ He went and brought him birds. [Rabbi Akiva] said to him: ‘Why did you take so long? [Did it take a long time] to trap them?’ He said: ‘It is because they cause people to tremble.’ [Rabbi Akiva] read this verse in his regard: “The trembling of [ḥerdat] man brings a snare.” The trembling that Jacob induced in Isaac, as it is written: “Isaac trembled [vayeḥerad] a great trembling…” (Genesis 27:33), and by right, he should have cursed him. “But one who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” – You inspired him to bless him, as it is stated: “And he shall be blessed” (Genesis 27:33).
The trembling that Ruth induced in Boaz, as it is stated: “The man trembled and flinched” (Ruth 3:8), and by right, he should have cursed her. “But, one who trusts in the Lord will be exalted” – You inspired him to bless her, as it is stated: “Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter.” “And flinched,” she embraced him like lichen.²¹⁰She did so to calm him. He began touching her hair; he said: ‘Spirits do not have hair.’ He said to her: ‘Who are you, a spirit or a woman?’ She said: ‘A woman.’ [He said:] ‘Are you single or married?’ She said to him: ‘Single.’ [He said:] ‘Are you ritually impure, or pure?’ She said to him: ‘Pure.’ Here was a ritually pure woman lying at his feet, as it is stated: “He said: Who are you? She said: I am Ruth your maidservant…” (Ruth 3:9). Rabbi Berekhya said: The wicked are accursed. There it is written: “She grabbed him by his garment, saying: Lie with me” (Genesis 39:12), but here: “Spread your garment over your maidservant” (Ruth 3:9).²¹¹The wife of Potiphar brazenly demanded that Joseph lie with her, although she was married. Ruth, in contrast, who was permitted to Boaz, spoke to him in a humble and modest fashion.

“He said: ‘Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter; you have shown more kindness [at the end than at the beginning]...” Rabbi Yoḥanan, Reish Lakish, and the Rabbis – Rabbi Yoḥanan said: A person should never refrain from going to an elder to be blessed, as Boaz was eighty years old and he had not been remembered,²¹²God had not given him a son. but when that righteous woman prayed for him, he was immediately remembered, as it is stated: “Naomi said…: Blessed be he by the Lord…” (Ruth 2:20). Reish Lakish said: Ruth was forty years old, and had not been remembered when she was married to Maḥlon. When that righteous one [Boaz] prayed for her, she was remembered, as it is stated: “He said: Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter.” The Rabbis say: The two of them were remembered only due to the blessing of the righteous, as it is stated: “All the people who were at the gate, and the elders, said: May the Lord render the woman…[like Rachel and like Leah…]” (Ruth 4:11). “You have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning” – Rabbi Shmuel bar Rav Yitzḥak said: A woman prefers a poor young man to an elderly rich man.

4. At midnight I will rise to give thanks unto Thee because of Thy righteous ordinances. (Ps 119:62) Rabbi Pinchas said in the name of R. Elazar bar Menachem: What would David do? He would take up a harp and lyre and put them by his head [before he went to sleep], then at midnight he would get up and play them . When the scholars of Israel heard the music, they would say, “Well, if King David is engaged in Torah study [at this this hour], then we should be all the more so!” [Soon,] all of Israel could be found engaging in Torah study. Rabbi Levi said: There was a window above David's bed open to the south. He would hang the harp across from the window and when the southern wind blew at midnight, it would whirl through the strings of the harp and play it. As it is written: when the instrument played (2Ki 3:15). It does not say “the instrument was played,” but “the instrument played,” as in, “the instrument played itself.” So it was that all of Israel heard the music [and knowing that king David was awake and studying] would say, “Well, if King David is doing so, then we should be all the more so!” [Soon,] all of Israel could be found engaging in Torah study. So it was that David said, “Awake, my glory; awake, harp and lyre; I will awake [at] dawn.” (Ps 57:9) [By this he means to say,] “I will awaken my honor before the honor of the One who created me. The importance of my honor is nothing compared to the honor of the One who created me. [Do not read], “I will awake [at] dawn.” Rather, [read it as] “I will wake the dawn, the dawn will not wake me.” His evil impulse would pester him and say to him, “David, It is the custom of kings to awaken (no sooner than) dawn, but you say 'I will wake the dawn?' It is the custom of kings to sleep in until the third hour of the day, but you say “At midnight I will rise to give thanks unto Thee [because of Thy righteous ordinances.]” (Ps 119:62) What is meant by “because of Thy righteous ordinances”? [David meant] For the ordinances that You enforced against the wicked Pharaoh, and for the righteousness that You did for Sarah my elder. As it is written: And the LORD plagued Pharaoh and his house with great plagues [because of Sarai Abram's wife.] (Gen 12:17) Another interpretation: because of Thy righteous ordinances. [David meant] for the ordinances that You enforced against the peoples of the world, and for the righteousness that You have done with my two elders, [Boaz and Ruth]. For if he had entered her [when she came to him, or] cursed her at once from below , from whence would I have arisen? Instead, You put a blessing into his heart; [and he said:] “Blessed be thou of the LORD.” (Ruth 3:10)Another interpretation: because of Thy righteous ordinances. For the ordinances that You enforced against the Egyptians in Egypt, and for the righteousness that You have done with our elders in Egypt, even though they had no mitzvot to save themselves except for two; the blood of Passover and the blood of circumcision. As it is written: And when I passed by thee, and saw thee wallowing in thy bloods, I said unto thee: In thy bloods, live; [yea, I said unto thee: In thy bloods, live.] (Ez 16:6) Bloods : The blood of Passover and the blood of circumcision.

(Ruth 3:9–10:) THEN HE SAID: WHO ARE YOU, AND SHE SAID: I AM YOUR HANDMAID RUTH [….] SO HE SAID: MAY YOU BE BLESSED OF THE LORD, MY DAUGHTER. It was not enough for her that he did not curse her. Instead he blessed her. (Ruth 3:10, cont.:) YOU HAVE MADE YOUR LAST ACT OF KINDNESS BETTER THAN THE FIRST. Thus did Boaz explain: Whom does a woman love? A poor young man more than a rich old man. Now I am eighty years old; yet she has come to me to sanctify the Name of Names. He began to bless her. He said to her (in vs. 13): SPEND THE NIGHT…. [IF HE WILL REDEEM YOU (from a childless marriage), GOOD]. <LET HIM REDEEM;> BUT IF HE DOES NOT CHOOSE TO REDEEM YOU, <THEN I MYSELF WILL REDEEM YOU>. R. Judah b. R. Shallum the Levite said: The evil drive came to him. It said to him: You are unmarried and she is unmarried. Take her. Immediately he bound his drive by an oath and said to it (in vs. 13): AS THE LORD LIVES, I will not touch her. R. Huna said: She said to him: Are you dismissing me with words? He said to her: AS THE LORD LIVES, I am not dismissing you with words. David said: I am obliged to give thanks to you for the miracles which you have done with my great grandfather and my great grandmother at night. Ergo (in Ps. 119:62): AT MIDNIGHT I WILL ARISE TO THANK YOU.