Les Proverbes 5:6 Midrash : Ein Yaakov (Glick Edition), Midrash Tanchuma, Midrash Tanchuma Buber & Devarim Rabbah

R. Jonathan b. Achmai and R. Juda b. Gerim had been studying the chapter concerning vows before R. Simon b. Jochai. In the evening they took leave of him and departed. On the following morning they returned and asked leave again. Whereupon R. Simon b. Jochai said unto them: "Did you not take leave of me last night?" They answered him: "Has not our master taught us that a disciple who takes leave of his teacher and remains in the same place over night must take leave again? For it is "written (I Kings 8, 66) On the ninth day (the twenty-second day, of the seventh month) he dismissed the people, and they blessed the king; and it is again written (II Chron. 7, 10) And on the twenty-third day of the seventh month he dismissed the people. We infer from this that a disciple who, after taking leave of his master, remains over night in the same place, must take leave again." [Hence both dates are correct.] He then said to his son: "These are worthy (scholarly) men. Go and let them bestow a blessing upon you." His son went, and found them discussing the contradiction of the following passages (Prov. 4, 26) Balance well the track of thy foot, and let all thy ways be firmly right; and it is written (Ib. 5, 6) So that she cannot balance the path of life; her tracks are unsteady and she knoweth it not. This presents no difficulty; the latter passage refers to such a commandment that can not be performed by others (Ib. b) and the former passage has reference to such as can be performed by others. [When it should be preferred to study.] They again propounded a question: It is written (Ib. 3, 15) She is more precious than pearls, and all the valuable things are not equal unto her. Hence, Heavenly things are equal; and it is written (Ib. 8, 2) And all the things that men wish for are not equal to her; hence even Heavenly things are included? And this they also explained that the one refers to such a case which may be performed by others, while the other refers to such a case which cannot be performed by other. Then they turned to him (the son) and said. "Wherefor hast thou come to us?" "Father sent me here to receive your blessing," was his answer. Whereupon they said to him: "May it be His will that thou sowest and never reapest; thou shalt bring in, but never carry out; thou Shalt give forth but not bring in; thy permanent house shall be waste and thy temporary dwelling shall be inhabited; thy table shall be confused, and thou shalt not see a first year." When he returned unto his father he said: "Not only did they not bless me but, on the contrary, they caused me grief with their words!" "What did they say to you?" asked his father. He recited the above. "All there are blessings!" exclaimed his father, "viz: Thou shalt sow and not reap means [allegorically] that thou shalt bear children and they shall not die. Thou shalt bring in and not give forth means that thou shalt bring in thy house wives for sons, and thy male children shall not die, so their wives will not need to leave thy house. Thou shalt give forth and not bring in means that thou shalt have daughters and their husbands shall not die, so that they shall not be compelled to return to thy house. Thy permanent house shall be ruined and thy temporary dwelling shall be inhabited — for this world is only a temporary dwelling and the world to come is the real house, as it is written (Ps. 49, 12) Their inward thought is, that their houses are to be forever. Do not read Kirbam, (their inward) but Kivrom (their graves). Thy table shall be confused, on account of many children. And thou shalt not see a first year means thy wife shall not die, so that thou shalt not be compelled to marry another."

(Deut. 7:12:) “And it shall come to pass if you heed [these statutes].” This text is related (to Prov. 5:6), “She does not steer a straight path of life; her ways wander, and she does not know it.” R. Abba bar Kahana said, “That you should not practice give and take among the commandments of Torah to see which reward of Torah and commandment is greatest and perform that one.²M. Ps. 9:3; see Deut. R. 6:2. Why? (Ibid.:) ‘Her ways wander, and she does not know it.’ The paths of [rewards of] the Torah have been moved.” R. Hiyya said, “A parable: To what is the matter comparable? To a king who had an orchard and introduced workers into it, but the king did not disclose the reward (i.e., the payment) for his seedlings to them; because if he revealed the reward for his [various] seedlings, one would see which seedling increased [their] reward, and plant that one. The work in the orchard would end up with some of it suspended and some of it carried out. Similarly the Holy One, blessed be He, did not reveal the reward for each and every commandment in the Torah; for if he had revealed it, the commandments would have been found with some of them carried out and some of them suspended.” And R. Aha said in the name of R. Abba bar Kahana, “The Holy One, blessed be He, has made the reward for fulfilling a commandment moved around in this world, so that Israel would totally fulfill them.”³yPe’ah 1:1 (15d); yQid. 1:7 (61b); PR 23/24:2. R. Simeon ben Johay taught, “For two commandments did the Holy One, blessed be He, reveal their reward. These are the lightest of the light and the weightiest of the weighty ones. The lightest of the light ones is sending away [the mother from] the nest; and there it is written (in Deut. 22:7), ‘and you will prolong your days.’ The most weighty is honoring parents, about which it is [also] written (in Deut. 5:16 // Exod. 20:12), ‘so that you will lengthen your days.’⁴So also M. Sam. Note that they are equal with regard to reward [in] this world.” R. Abba bar Kahana said, “If in regard to paying a debt, length of days is written,⁵Enoch Zundel, in his commentary, ‘Ets Yosef, on Tanh., Deut. 3:2, suggests the debt here is the debt to parents for bearing, rearing, and education. how much the more so when it is a case of damage to purse and loss of life.” R. Levi said, “They said something greater than that: A case of paying a debt is more important than a case of damage to purse and loss of life.” R. Abba bar Kahana said in the name of Rabbi, “Just as the giving of their reward is great, so [too] are their punishments great.” That is what is written (in Prov. 30:17), “The eye that mocks a father and scorns obeying a mother will have the wadi ravens pluck it out and the young eagles devour it.” The Holy One, blessed be He, said, “A raven, which is cruel to its young, will come and pluck it out without profiting from it; an eagle, which is merciful to its young, will come and will profit from it.” And where is it shown that a raven is cruel to its young? Where it is stated (in Job 38:41), “Who provides prey for the raven, when its young cry unto God and wander about without food.” It also says (in Ps. 147:9), “to young ravens when they cry out.” When the raven reproduces, it reproduces white [young].⁶PRE 21. Then the male says to the female that another bird has begotten it. So they reject and forsake them. What does the Holy One, blessed be He, do? He brings forth gnats from their dung.⁷See Lev. R. 19:1. Then [the gnats] fly, and [the young] eat them.⁸Cf. Yalqut Shim’oni, Deut. 846: “Then they fly over them, eat, and become black.” This is what is written (in Job 38:41), “Who provides prey for the raven.” But the eagle is merciful, as it is written (in Deut. 32:11), “As an eagle stirs up its nest and hovers over its young]; it spreads its wings, takes them up, and bears them aloft on its pinions.” As it is not confident about them because of other birds who pursue them. What does it do? It places them on its wings and says, “Better that the arrow should go through me and not through my children.”

(Deut. 7:12:) AND IT SHALL COME TO PASS IF YOU HEED <THESE STATUTES>. This text is related (to Prov. 5:6): SHE DOES NOT STEER A STRAIGHT PATH OF LIFE; HER WAYS WANDER, AND SHE DOES NOT KNOW IT. [R. Abba bar Kahana said:] You should not practice give and take among the commandments of Torah to see which reward of Torah and commandment is greatest and perform that one.⁵Tanh., Deut. 3:2; M. Ps. 9:3; see Deut. R. 6:2; also Mark 12:28 // Matthew 22:36. Why? (Ibid.:) HER WAYS WANDER, AND SHE DOES NOT KNOW IT. The paths of the Torah are movable. R. Hiyya said: A parable: To what is the matter comparable? To a king who had an orchard and introduced workers into it, but the king did not disclose to them the reward (i.e., the payment) for his seedlings, because if he revealed the reward for his <various> seedlings, one would see which seedling increased <their> reward, and plant that one. The work in the orchard would end up with some of it suspended and some of it carried out. Similarly the Holy One did not reveal the reward for each and every commandment in the Torah; for if he had revealed it, the commandments would have been found with some of them carried out and some of them suspended. R. Aha also <said> in the name of R. Abba bar Kahana: The Holy One has made the reward for fulfilling commandments irregular in this world, so that Israel would totally fulfill them.⁶yPe’ah 1:1 (15d); yQid. 1:7 (61b); PR 23/24:2.