Musar su Genesi 19:40

We have learned that at a time when G–d loves man He sends him a gift. What is this gift? A poor person. G–d extends this opportunity to perform a deed of loving kindness with the poor. When such a good deed has been performed by such a person, G–d provides more of a thread of חסד which originates in the 'right' side of the emanations, and He spreads this thread over the head of the person who looked after the poor. He makes a mark on that person's head so that, when judgment engulfs his environment, the executing angel should beware not to touch the individual so marked by G–d. When G–d was about to destroy Sodom, He first provided Abraham with the merit of entertaining the three angels so that through the meeting he would have a chance to save Lot his nephew by using their good services. This is the meaning of 'G–d remembered Abraham and sent Lot away from the destruction' (19,29). The Torah does not say that 'G–d remembered Lot.' He was saved by the merit of Abraham. What was it that G–d remembered? It refers to Abraham's treatment of the angels. G–d remembers the charitable deeds of a person at the time when destructive forces are allowed free reign. All these good deeds performed are recorded in Heaven. This is the meaning of וצדקה תציל ממות, 'and charity saves one from death' (Proverbs 10,2). This is why G–d arranged for Abraham to have the opportunity to perform an act of charity which could serve as an excuse to save Lot." Thus far the Zohar on the subject (Sullam edition Vayera 52).

אל תבט אחריך . When G–d does a person a favor to which he is not entitled by personal merit, such a person should feel shame and embarrassment. He most certainly should not feel superior because G–d has chosen to do him such a favor. This is why the angels rushed Lot, as if to say: "Be happy that at least you save your life." On the other hand, when the Jewish people were liberated by G–d from Egypt, and G–d performed many miracles, they had indeed merited those. This is why the Torah says אשר עשה ה' אלוקיך במצרים לעיניך, the miracles G–d performed for you in Egypt in front of your very eyes" (Deut. 4,34). Not only were the Israelites saved from the effects of the plagues, but they were allowed to watch the Egyptians suffer from them.

On 13,5: וגם ללוט ההולך את אברם היו צאן ובקר ואהלים "Also Lot who went with Abram possessed sheep, cattle, and tents." In Bereshit Rabbah 41,4 Rabbi Tuviah comments that the tents mentioned refer to Ruth the Moabite and Naomi the Ammonite. This is also why later on in Genesis 19, 15 the angels urge Lot to take "your wife and your two daughters הנמצאות, i.e. "who will have an enduring existence, i.e. they will be two tents." Rabbi Yossi says the word הנמצאות, is equivalent to מציאות, finds. The two finds are Ruth and Naomi. Rabbi Yitzchak portrays G–d as saying "I have found My servant David." Where did G–d find him? In Sodom.

We have now explored three ways in which the meal Abraham offered the angels can be tied in with the עקדה, something still almost 40 years in the future. The paragraph dealing with Lot's flight from Sodom also contains allusions to the עקדה, as mentioned in Bereshit Rabbah 50,10 on the verse ואת שתי בנותיו הנמצאות (Genesis 19,15). Rabbi Tuviah says that these two daughters are Ruth the Moabite and Naami the Ammonite. Rabbi Yitzchak says that G–d said "I have found My servant David. Where did I find him? In Sodom."