Midrasz do Lamentacje Jeremiasza 3:33

The disciples of R. Simon b. Jochai asked their master: "By what sins had the Israelites incurred the decree of Haman in that age?" "Tell me your opinion," said he. They said: "Because the Israelites enjoyed the feast which Ahasuerus the wicked man made." "If so, then only those of Shushan should have suffered. Why did those of all provinces suffer?" They said to him: "Let then the master explain to us." "Because," answered he, "they kneeled to the image." "If so," his disciples asked, "they were then actually guilty; why were they not killed?" And he answered: "They bowed to the image not because they wanted to, but only for the sake of outward appearance; so the Holy One, praised be He! also made the decree against them for appearance [and it was not carried out]." And this is the meaning of the Passage (Lam. 3, 33) He doth not afflict of His own will.

“For the Lord will not forsake forever. For, if He torments, He will have compassion according to His abundant grace. For He does not afflict willingly and torment the children of men” (Lamentations 3:31–33).
“For the Lord will not forsake forever” – as it were, He has not forsaken and He will not forsake. “For, if He torments, He will have compassion according to His abundant grace” – Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish said: After the Holy One blessed be He despairs of the righteous in this world, He then has mercy on them. That is what is written: “For, if He torments, He will have compassion.”
“For He does not afflict willingly” – Rabbi Berekhya said in the name of Rabbi Levi: In two places Israel acted. In one, they acted with their mouths but not with their hearts, and in one, they acted with their hearts but did not act with their mouths. These are Sinai and Babylon. In Sinai, they acted with their mouths but not with their hearts. That is what is written: “But they beguiled Him with their mouth and lied to Him with their tongue…” (Psalms 78:36). In Babylon, they acted with their hearts and not with their mouths.⁶⁴When Nebuchadnezzar forced them to bow to his idol, they remained loyal to God in their hearts but not outwardly. That is what is written: “For He does not afflict willingly.” The Holy One blessed be He said: Let the mouth at Sinai come and atone for the mouth in Babylon, and let the heart in Babylon come and atone for the heart at Sinai. Nevertheless, “and torment the children of men” (Lamentations 3:33) – He placed over them “a man who is an adversary and an enemy,” this is Haman” (Esther 7:6); and He and made their wound more painful.

“This, your stature, is likened to a date palm, and your breasts to clusters” (Song of Songs 7:8).
“This, your stature, is likened to a date palm.” Rabbi Ḥonya [said] in the name of Rabbi Dosa bar Tevet: The Holy One blessed be He created two evil inclinations in His world, the inclination of idol worship and the inclination of licentiousness. The inclination of idol worship has already been eradicated, but the inclination of licentiousness exists. The Holy One blessed be He said: ‘Anyone who can overcome the [urge to engage in] licentiousness, I attribute to him credit as though he overcame both of them.’
Rabbi Yehuda said: [This is analogous] to a snake charmer who had snakes. He charmed the large one and left the small one and said: ‘Anyone who can overcome this [small] one, I will ascribe him credit as though he overcame both of them.’ So too, the Holy One blessed be He eradicated the inclination of idol worship and left the one of licentiousness. He said: ‘Anyone who overcomes the inclination of licentiousness, credit is attributed to him as though he overcame both of them.’
When was the inclination of idol worship eradicated? Rabbi Benaya said: [In the days of] Mordekhai and Esther. The Rabbis say: [In the days of] Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya. The Rabbis responded to Rabbi Benaya: Was it eradicated by an individual? Rabbi Benaya responded to the Rabbis: Were Mordekhai and Esther individuals? This supports Rabbi Benaya: Rabbi Tanḥuma, Rabbi Meyasha, and Rabbi Yirmeya [said] in the name of Rabbi Shmuel bar Kahana: It is written: “Sackcloth and ashes were arranged for the multitudes” (Esther 4:3); most of that generation was righteous.⁴⁸The fact that many people donned sackcloth and ashes and engaged intensely in prayer indicates that Mordekhai and Esther were not the only righteous individuals.
This supports the Rabbis: Rabbi Pinḥas and Rabbi Ḥilkiya in the name of Rabbi Shmuel: It is written: “Your survivors will remember Me among the nations where they were taken captive” (Ezekiel 6:9). “Your survivors,” these are Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya, who were survivors from the fiery furnace. Among the nations where they settled is not written here, but rather, “among the nations where they were taken captive.” The Holy One blessed be He spoke to Israel: “Ephraim: What do I have to do with idols anymore?” (Hosea 14:9).⁴⁹God tells the prophet that Ephraim, representing Israel, will say this. What do I have to do with the inclination of idol worship? “I have responded [aniti]” (Hosea 14:9); I have subdued myself [uneiti] for His sake. “I will gaze upon him [va’ashurenu]” (Hosea 14:9), did I not recite song [shira] before You? That is to say: It is I who subjugated the inclination of idol worship.⁵⁰In this passage, the midrash reads the verse in Hosea to mean that Israel, referred to as Ephraim, claims to have subjugated itself before God and refrained from idolatry. God responds that it was He who eliminated the inclination for idol worship.
If so, why did Israel’s existence become uncertain during the days of Haman? The Rabbis and Rabbi Shimon ben Yoḥai, the Rabbis say: Because Israel engaged in idol worship. Rabbi Shimon said: Because they ate from the cooked dishes of the gentiles. They said to him: But was it not only the residents of Shushan the capital who partook in the feast? That is what is written: “Upon the completion of those days the king made a banquet for all the people who were present in Shushan the capital” (Esther 1:5). He said to them: But are not all Israel responsible for one another, as it is written: “They will stumble over one another” (Leviticus 26:37), one in the iniquity of his counterpart?
He said to them: If it is according to your opinion, you have brought upon all of Israel liability for elimination, as it is written: “One who sacrifices to gods, [save to the Lord only,] shall be destroyed” (Exodus 22:19). They said to him: Nevertheless, they did not worship it with all their hearts, as it is stated: “For He does not afflict willingly” (Lamentations 3:33).⁵¹Just as they did not worship idols with their hearts, God did not afflict them “willingly [milibo],” or literally, “with His heart” (Yefei Kol). Nevertheless, “and torment the children of men” (Lamentations 3:33); He placed over then an extremely harsh man to subject them to an ordeal, this is Nebuchadnezzar, who arose and made their wound more painful.
Rabbi Berekhya said in the name of Rabbi Levi: In two places, Israel acted with the Holy One blessed be He. At Sinai, they acted with their mouths but did not act with their heart, as it is stated: “But they beguiled Him with their mouth and lied to Him with their tongue…their heart was not steadfast toward Him” (Psalms 78:36–37). In Babylon, they acted with their heart but did not act with their mouth,⁵²When Nebuchadnezzar forced them to bow to his idol, they remained loyal to God in their hearts but not outwardly. as it is stated: “For He does not afflict willingly” (Lamentations 3:33), and nevertheless, “and torment the children of men” (Lamentations 3:33). He placed over them a man, as it is stated: “A man who is an adversary and an enemy. This wicked Haman” (Esther 7:6), and made their wound more painful.
In the opinion of the Rabbis, Israel engaged in idol worship in the days of Nebuchadnezzar. In the opinion of Rabbi Shimon ben Yoḥai, Israel did not engage in idol worship in the days of Nebuchadnezzar. In the opinion of the Rabbis, Israel engaged in idol worship, how so? Nebuchadnezzar set up an idol and designated twenty-three people from each and every nation and twenty-three from amongst Israel.⁵³These individuals were to bow down to the idol at its inaugural ceremony. Three of those designated from Israel were Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya, who did not prostrate themselves, but the other twenty did.
In the opinion of Rabbi Shimon, Israel did not engage in idol worship, how so? Nebuchadnezzar set up an idol and designated three people from each and every nation and three from amongst Israel. Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya, who were the three from Israel, arose and asserted themselves and did not engage in idol worship. They went to Daniel and said to him: ‘Daniel our master, Nebuchadnezzar set up an idol and designated three people from each and every nation and designated us from amongst Israel. What do you say, shall we prostrate ourselves to it or not?’ He said to them: ‘Behold, the prophet is before you, go to him.’ They immediately went to Ezekiel. They said to him as they said to Daniel: ‘Shall we prostrate ourselves to it or not?’ He said to them: ‘I have already received a tradition from my teacher Isaiah: “Hide for a brief moment until the fury has passed” (Isaiah 26:20).’⁵⁴Ezekiel advised them to go into hiding until they would be able to escape (Matnot Kehuna).
They said to him: ‘Do you want them to say that all the nations prostrate themselves to this idol?’ He said to them: ‘What do you say?’ They said to him: ‘We want to diminish it, in that we will be there and will not prostrate ourselves to it, so that they will say: All the nations prostrate themselves to this idol other than Israel.’ He said to them: ‘If that is your wish, wait for me until I consult the Omnipotent.’ That is what is written: “Men of the elders of Israel came to seek the Lord and they sat before me” (Ezekiel 20:1). Who were they? They were Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya. He said before the Holy One blessed be He: ‘Master of the universe, Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya request to give their lives for the sanctity of Your name. Will You stand by them or not?’ He said: ‘I will not stand by them.’ That is what is written: “Son of man, speak to the elders of Israel, and say to them…Do you come to seek Me? (Ezekiel 20:3). After you caused Me to destroy My house, to burn My Sanctuary, and to exile My children among the nations; after that you come to seek Me? “As I live, I will not acquiesce to you” (Ezekiel 20:3).
At that moment, Ezekiel wept, lamented, and wailed to himself: ‘Woe to the enemies of Israel,⁵⁵This is a euphemism for Israel itself, employed when referring to difficult events or situations. the remnant of Judah is lost. Only these remain from Judah, as it is stated: “Among them from the children of Judah were Daniel, Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya” (Daniel 1:6),⁵⁶These individuals were selected when Nebuchadnezzar asked for youths from the line of the kings of Judah who were handsome, wise, and knowledgeable. Thus, these were the elite of the remnant of Judah. and this is the answer that they receive?’ He was weeping and walking. When he arrived, they said to him: ‘What did the Holy One blessed be He say to you?’ He said to them: ‘I will not stand by you.’ They said to him: ‘Whether He stands or whether He does not stand, we are giving our lives to sanctify His name.’ Know that it is so, for as long as they had not come before Ezekiel, what did they say to Nebuchadnezzar? “We have no need to reply to you in this matter. Behold our God, whom we worship, exists; He is able to deliver us” (Daniel 3:16–17). After they came to Ezekiel and heard the response, they said to Nebuchadnezzar: “But if not, let it be known to you, king” (Daniel 3:18), whether He delivers or whether He does not deliver, “let it be known to you, king, that we will not worship your gods, and we will not prostrate ourselves to the golden image that you have erected” (Daniel 3:18).
When they went out from before Ezekiel, the Holy One blessed be He revealed Himself and said: ‘Ezekiel, what do you think, that I will not stand by them? I will certainly stand by them.’ That is what is written: “So said the Lord God: Concerning this too, I will acquiesce to the house of Israel” (Ezekiel 36:37). ‘But leave them and do not say anything to them. I will leave them to proceed unsuspecting.’ That is what is written: “He who walks innocently will walk securely” (Proverbs 10:9).
What did they do? They went and dispersed themselves among the populace and said, ‘Even if He does not deliver, “let it be known to you…”’⁵⁷They dispersed themselves among the crowd so that everyone would hear them refuse to prostrate themselves. That is why people take oaths and say: ‘To the One who established the world on three pillars.’ Some say that these are Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and some say that these are Ḥananya, Mishael, and Azarya.
“This, your stature, is likened to a date palm [tamar]” (Song of Songs 7:8), just as it was decreed that Tamar be burned, yet she was not burned,⁵⁸See Genesis 38:24–26. so too, it was degreed that they be burned yet, they were not burned. Into what was the fire transformed? Rabbi Elazar and Rabbi Shmuel bar Neḥemya, Rabbi Elazar said: It became like a planet. Rabbi Shmuel bar Neḥemya said: It became like the radiance of the heavens.