Halakhah sobre Números 30:7

Rav Henkin concludes that we should not abandon the accepted practice for wives to follow their husbands’ family traditions. However, he rules that a wife may continue to follow her family’s traditions regarding a matter that does not impinge on her relationship with her husband and does not impose a hardship on her.¹⁴These two areas are considered within the husband’s domain, as it is in these areas that he has the right to cancel her vows (hafarat nedarim; see Bemidbar 30:7-17 and Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 234:55). Rav Henkin requires that she stipulate with her fiancée before the marriage that she wants to continue to practice her own family’s traditions. We should note, however, that Rav Hershel Schachter (Beit Yitzchak 39:519) confirms the rulings of Rav Feinstein, Rav Felder, Dayan Weisz, and Rav Ovadia that the wife enters the domain of the husband “since this is the essence of marriage – the wife entering the domain of the husband.”