Midrash sobre Provérbios 12:25

"The children of Ammon came against Israel relying upon the strength of Shovach." It is written (II Sam. 10, 16) Shovach, and again it is written (I Chr. 19, 16) Shofach. R. Ishmael and R. Samuel, and according to others R. Ami and R. Assi explained both passages, one said that his real name was Shovach, and why was he called Shofach? Because whoever saw him, was poured out before him like a ladle, [his courage failed him]. The other one said: "His real name was Shofach, and why was he called Shovach? Because he was built like a dove-cot, [high-statute]." (Jer. 5, 16) Their quiver is as an open sepulchre: they are all mighty men. R. Samuel, and according to others, R. Ami and R. Assi differ as to the meaning of this passage. One said that it means: "When he threw an arrow he slew heaps in the army of Nebuchadnezzar, and if one will think that this was because they were so skilled in warfare and nothing else, it is said: "They are all mighty men." But the other one said that this refers to their own personality and with their own conduct. (Pr. 12, 25) If there be care in the heart of man, let him suppress. R. Ami and R. Assi differ in the explanation of this passage, one said that this means: "He should forget about it," and the other one said: "He should relate it to others."

R. Akiba says also he who reads in the books of the Chitzonim (profane books). We are taught in a Baraitha: This refers to the books of the atheists. R. Joseph said: "One must not read even in the book of Ben Sirra." "Why so?" asked Abaye of him: "Shall we assume because it is written there, 'Thou shalt not take off the skin of a fish, even that of the ear, as the skin will be damaged, but roast it in fire, and eat with it two loaves of toast?' Is not its plainer sense similar to the following passage? (Deut. 20, 19) Thou shalt not destroy the trees thereof, etc? And if because it contains, 'A daughter to a father is a false treasure. Because of the worry she causes him, he does not sleep in the night. When she is a minor [he is afraid] perhaps she will be seduced. When she becomes of age, perhaps she will sin; when she becomes vigaros, perhaps she will not marry. After she is married, perhaps she will have no children. And when she becomes old, perhaps she will become a witch.' Similar to this, our Rabbis also said: 'The world cannot be without males and females, however happy are those who have male children,' etc. And is it because there is written, 'Thou shalt not bring worry in thy heart, for such has killed strong men.' This was also said by Solomon (Pr. 12, 25) Care in the heart of a man boweth it down? Whereupon R. Ami and Assi gave their interpretation; according to one, 'let him dismiss it from his mind'; and according to the other one, 'let him speak it out to others.' And if because it is written there, 'Prevent many people from entering thy house, as not all of them are fit to come into it'; this also was said by Rabbi, for we are taught in a Baraitha that Rabbi says: 'Never shall a man try to acquire too many friends within his house, for it is said (Pr. 18, 24) There are friends that one hath to his own hurt.' Therefore we must say, because it reads there, 'A thin-bearded person is shrewd. And a thick-bearded person is a fool. He who blows off the foam, shows a sign that he is not thirsty. And he who says with what shall I eat the bread, take the bread away from him. And he whose beard is divided in two, the whole world will not overrule him.'" Said R. Joseph: 'However, the following good teachings which are in this book may be proclaimed: 'A good wife is a good gift; she ought to be given to one who fears God. A bad wife is to her husband like leprosy, and what is his remedy? Let him divorce her, and be cured from this leprosy. A beautiful woman, happy is her husband, the number of his days is doubled. Turn away thy eyes from a coquette, lest thou be caught in her net; abstain thyself from drinking wine or beer even with her husband, because through the handsome appearance of a beautiful woman many were destroyed, and numerous are those who were killed by her. Numerous are the wounds of the pedlar [inflicted by the husbands] when found trading with their wives, for as a spark kindles a coal, or as a coop is full of birds, so are their houses full of deceit. Avoid many visitors to thy house; neither shalt thou invite anyone in thy house. Although many may be who wish you peace, however reveal thy secrets only to one among a thousand. Be careful with words even with her that lies on thy bosom. Worry not about tomorrow's trouble, for thou knowest not what the day may beget. Perhaps when the tomorrow comes, thou wilt not be in existence, and thus wouldst thou have worried for a world which is not thine." All the days of the poor are bad. Ben Sira said: "Also the nights, for his roof is usually lower than others, and his vineyard is usally on the top of the mountain, thus the rain from others falls on his and the manure [which he brings up for it] is blown off to the other vineyards which are lower."