מדרש אויף משלי 17:19

Son of man, say unto the prince of Tyre: Thus saith the Lord God: Because thy heart is lifted up, and thou hast said: I am a god, I sit in the seat of God, in the heart of the seas; yet thou art man, and not God (Ezek. 28:2). Scripture states elsewhere in allusion to this verse: Be not rash with thy mouth, and let not thy heart be hasty to utter a word before God; for God is in the heavens and thou art upon the earth; therefore, let thy words be few (Eccles. 5:1). It says also: He loveth transgression that loveth strife, he that lifteth his gate seeketh destruction (Prov. 17:19). Should this verse not state that “he who lowereth his gate²⁷Thereby placing temptation before others. seeketh destruction,” since everyone who lowers his gate causes people to stumble and to be destroyed: What then is the meaning of he that lifteth his gate seeketh destruction? This means that one who opens his mouth and utters words that are unseemly brings on his own destruction, for the Holy One, blessed be He, will destroy him. Therefore, it is said: Be not rash with thy mouth (Eccles. 5:1).

“The king’s scribes were summoned on the thirteenth day of the first month, and it was written in accordance with everything that Haman had commanded the king’s satraps, and the governors who were over every province, and the princes of every people; to every province in its script, and to every people in its language. It was written in the name of King Aḥashverosh, and it was sealed with the king's ring” (Esther 3:12).
“The king’s scribes were summoned...and it was written in accordance with everything that Haman had commanded.” It is written: “Pharaoh commanded all his people, saying: Every son who is born, you shall cast him into the Nile…” (Exodus 1:22). Pharaoh commanded, but the Holy One blessed be He did not command. You [Haman], what power do you have? “Who is this, who said and it occurred, if the Lord did not command?” (Lamentations 3:37). What did He command? “For with a powerful hand he will send them out” (Exodus 6:1); and so it happened to him. Moreover, “He tossed Pharaoh and his army in the Red Sea” (Psalms 136:15).
Similarly, “in accordance with everything that Haman had commanded” – he commanded, but the Holy One blessed be He did not command. Haman commanded “to destroy, to kill and to eliminate” (3:13), but the Lord did not command. What did He command? “May his evil plot that he had devised against the Jews return upon his head” (Esther 9:25), and so it happened to him, “and they hanged him and his sons on the gibbet” (Ibid.).
It is written: “He who elevates his entrance seeks destruction” (Proverbs 17:19). One who elevates the pronouncements of his mouth and utters inappropriate matters from his mouth, the Holy One blessed be He breaks him, and in the pot in which he cooked, he is cooked. Likewise, with Yitro it says: “As it was in the matter that they conspired against them” (Exodus 18:11).

"I have loved your Torah," as Solomon said (Proverbs 5:19), "A loving deer, a graceful doe: let her breasts satisfy you at all times; be exhilarated always with her love." The loving deer and graceful doe refer to the Torah, which everyone loves. The Lord said to Israel (Isaiah 1:4), "Why will you be stricken anymore? You will revolt more and more: the whole head is sick, and the whole heart faints." Likewise, it says (Ecclesiastes 9:9), "Enjoy life with the woman whom you love all the days of your fleeting life which He has given you under the sun; for this is your reward in life and in your toil in which you have labored under the sun." Therefore, David said, "I have loved," as it says (Psalm 119:97), "O how I love Your Torah! It is my meditation all the day." Whoever loves the Torah loves nothing but life, as it says (Proverbs 8:35), "For whoever finds me finds life and obtains favor from the Lord." David also said, "I have loved," as it says (Deuteronomy 6:5), "And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might." And it is written (Deuteronomy 6:6), "And these words, which I command you this day, shall be upon your heart." Therefore, it is said, "I have loved your Torah," etc. "I go to bathe, and it is with me; I sleep, and it is with me." Just as I was commanded (Deuteronomy 17:19), "And it shall be with him, and he shall read it all the days of his life," so it is with me. As it is written (Proverbs 6:22), "When you walk, it shall lead you; when you lie down, it shall keep you; and when you wake up, it shall talk with you." I did not make it a primary focus, for I did not make it a burden, but rather songs. And so it says (Psalm 119:54), "Your statutes have been my songs in the house of my pilgrimage." And not just songs, but also conversation, as it says (Psalm 119:97), "Your commandment makes me wiser than my enemies, for it is ever with me." It stood by me against my enemies, as it says (Psalm 119:98), "From all my teachers I gained understanding, for Your testimonies are my meditation." It stood by Joseph in Pharaoh's house, as he said to his servants (Genesis 41:38), "Can we find such a one as this, a man in whom is the spirit of God?" And it stood by Daniel in the court of Nebuchadnezzar. And so Moses says (Deuteronomy 4:6), "Keep and do them [the commandments] and so on." Therefore it is said, "From my enemies You have made me wise through Your commandments, for they are always with me" (Psalms 119:98). What do I care that I have not dealt with other books except for this [Torah]? Similarly, Solomon says (Ecclesiastes 12:12), "Of making many books there is no end," and he also says (Proverbs 25:16), "Have you found honey? Eat only what you need, that you not have it in excess and vomit it." The Torah is compared to a jar full of honey, and if one puts a quarter of it with water, a quarter of honey will come out of it. So too, if other matters enter your heart, words of Torah will emerge from it. Therefore it is said, "For they are always with me, from all my teachers I have gained understanding." What does it mean, "from all my teachers"? A person needs friends and disciples in Torah, so if he forgets something, he can ask his friends and they will remind him. Similarly, it says (Ecclesiastes 4:9), "Two are better than one, for they have good reward for their toil," and (Ecclesiastes 4:11), "Also, if two lie down together, they will be warm; but how can one be warm alone?" (Ecclesiastes 4:10), "For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow." Therefore it is said, "From all my teachers I have gained understanding." And who caused me to have discussions with the elders? As it is said (Job 12:12), "With the aged is wisdom, and in length of days understanding." What does it mean, "With the aged is wisdom"? You honored the elders, and did not take them out of Egypt until You said (Exodus 3:16), "Go and gather the elders of Israel," and You did not give the Torah until You said (Exodus 19:7), "And Moses called for the elders of the people, and set before them all these words which the LORD commanded him." And it says (Leviticus 19:32), "You shall rise before the gray-headed, and honor the face of the old man, and fear your God: I am the LORD." From the honor that you have given to the elders, I will keep Your precepts. Therefore it is said, "With the aged is wisdom." God said to him, "Until now you have not seen anything; yet you will see, as it is said (Isaiah 24:23), 'For the LORD of hosts will reign in Mount Zion and in Jerusalem, and before His elders shall be glory.'"