מדרש אויף משלי 5:8

הַרְחֵ֣ק מֵעָלֶ֣יהָ דַרְכֶּ֑ךָ וְאַל־תִּ֝קְרַ֗ב אֶל־פֶּ֥תַח בֵּיתָֽהּ׃

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Ein Yaakov (Glick Edition)

(Fol. 16b) Our Rabbis were taught: When R. Elazar was captured by the government, through the accusation of the heretics, he was brought to the gallows, and the general said to him: "A sage like you should be engaged in such a valueless thing [as the Torah]?'" And he answered: "The judge is trustworthy to me [to judge honestly]." The general thought R. Elazar referred to him; R. Elazar, however, referred to the Heavenly judge. And he said: "Because you trust in me, I swear by dinus (his idol) that you are free from this accusation." When R. Elazar returned home [and felt sorry for having been accused of heresy], his disciples surrounded him to console him, but he did not accept it [fearing the miraculous escape]. Said R. Akiba to him: "Rabbi, allow me to say before you one of the things you taught me," and he allowed him. Whereupon R. Akiba said: "Rabbi, probably some explanations of the heretics (Fol. 17) pleased you, and you have accepted them, and therefore you were suspected and captured." Whereupon he answered: "Akiba, you have reminded me; it happened once that I walked in the upper market of Sepphoria, and I met one of the heretics named Jacob of the village of Sachania and he said to me: 'It is written in the Torah (Deut. 23, 19) Thou shalt not bring the hire of a harlot, etc. May then a privy for the high-priest be built out of that money?' And I kept silent. Said he to me: 'So have I been taught (Mich. 1, 7) For from harlot's wages she gathered them, and for harlot's wages shall they be used again; hence, money that comes from a dirty place, may be expended on a dirty place;' which explanation pleased me. It is for this that I was suspected and captured. And I confess that I have transgressed the following passage (Pr. 5, 8) Remove far from her thy way, and come not nigh to the door of her house. Remove from her, means from heresy, and come not nigh, refers to government." Others, however, interpret the same, Remove far, etc., refers to both heresy and government, and come not nigh, to prostitution, which place, according to R. Chisda, it is prohibited to approach from a distance of four yards.
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Kohelet Rabbah

Another matter, “all matters are wearying” – matters of heresy exhaust a person. There was an incident involving Rabbi Eliezer, who was apprehended for the purpose of heresy.63He was apprehended by heretics in order to force him to concede to their beliefs. The governor took him and brought him up to the platform to judge him. He said to him: ‘Rabbi, is it appropriate for a great person like you to engage in these idle matters?’64The reference is to the Oral Torah. He said to him: ‘I consider the judge trustworthy.’ [The governor] thought that he said it regarding him, but [in fact, Rabbi Eliezer] said it in reference to Heaven. [The governor] said to him: ‘Since you trusted me, although I [still] say what I have believed: [How] is it possible that these academies would be [so] mistaken [as to believe] in these idle matters, [but nonetheless] the verdict is that you are exonerated.’
After Rabbi Eliezer was exonerated [and allowed to descend] from the platform, he was distressed that he had been apprehended for the purpose of heresy.65He did not understand why this had happened to him. His students entered to console him, but he did not accept it. Rabbi Akiva entered to him and said to him: ‘Rabbi, did, perhaps, one of the heretics ever say something before you and you found it pleasant?’ He said to him: ‘Yes, by Heaven, you reminded me. Once I was ascending in the upper marketplace of Tzippori, and a person approached me, and his name was Yaakov of the village of Sikhnaya, and he said to me one matter in the name of so-and-so66Some say this is a reference to Jesus. and it brought me pleasure. That matter was: ‘It is written in your Torah: “You shalt not bring the fee of a harlot or the price of a dog to the house of the Lord” (Deuteronomy 23:19). What are they?’ I said to him: ‘They are prohibited.’ He said to me: ‘They are prohibited for an offering, but is it permitted to destroy these [coins]?’67Once they have been consecrated. I said to him: ‘If so,68That they cannot be destroyed. what will he do with them?’ He said to me: ‘Let him make with them bathhouses and bathrooms.’69For use in the Temple complex. I said to him: ‘You have spoken well,’ and a halakha70That one must not engage in discourse with a heretic or accept his words. was temporarily concealed from me.
‘When he saw that I accepted his words, he said: ‘So said so-and-so: From repugnance it came, and to repugnance it should be expended,71The money came from payment to a harlot, and therefore should be used for repugnant matters, such as bathrooms. as it is stated: “For from the fee of a harlot she gathered them, and to the fee of a harlot they will return” (Micah 1:7). Let them be bathrooms for the multitudes,’ and it gave me pleasure. For that matter I was apprehended for heresy. Moreover, I violated what is written in the Torah: “Distance your way from her, and do not approach the door of her house” (Proverbs 5:8). “Distance your way from her,” this is heresy. “And do not approach the door of her house,” this is prostitution. Why? It is because: “For she has felled many wounded; abundant are all she has killed” (Proverbs 7:26).’
How far [must one distance oneself]? Rabbi Ḥisda said: Four cubits. For this, Rabbi Elazar ben Dama, son of the sister of Rabbi Yishmael, died. He was bitten by a snake, and Yaakov of the village of Sikhnaya came to cure him [through incantation] in the name of so-and-so, but Rabbi Yishmael did not allow him to do so. He said: ‘You are not permitted to do thus, ben Dama.’ [Ben Dama] said to him: ‘Allow me, and I will cite you proof from the Torah that it is permitted,’ but he did not manage to cite him proof before he died. Rabbi Yishmael rejoiced and said: ‘Happy are you, ben Dama, as your soul emerged in purity and you did not breach the boundary of the Sages, as anyone who breaches the boundary of the Sages, ultimately punishment befalls him, as it is stated: “One who breaches a fence, a snake will bite him” (Ecclesiastes 10:8).’ But was he not bitten [by a snake]? Rather, that a snake would not bite him in the future.72Had he been cured from this snake bite, he would have thereby sinned and he would have in any event then received another snake bite that would have been incurable (Etz Yosef). What did he have in that regard?73What proof did Rabbi Elazar ben Dama seek to bring? “That a man shall do and he will live by them” (Leviticus 18:5) – and not that he will die by them.74This proves that one may violate most prohibitions in order to save a life (Yoma 85b).
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Bamidbar Rabbah

Another matter: “Ish ish” – that is what is written: “I will give to you and to your descendants after you, the land of your residence…” (Genesis 17:8).
“I will give to you” (Genesis 17:8) – that is what is written: “As the Lord your God walks [in the midst of your camp]” (Deuteronomy 23:15). That is what is written: “Now, children, listen to me.… Distance your way from her.… lest you give [your glory] to others.… lest strangers be sated with your strength” (Proverbs 5:7–10). What is, “Now, children, listen to me”? It is speaking of the ten tribes and the tribe of Judah and Benjamin, as all Israel are called children, as it is stated: “You are children to the Lord your God…” (Deuteronomy 14:1). “Listen to me” – he cautioned them to fulfill the obligation to heed. “Do not depart from the sayings of my mouth.” (Proverbs 5:7) – he cautioned them to fulfill the performance [of mitzvot] as they accepted upon themselves at Sinai. “Everything the Lord has spoken we will perform and we will heed” (Exodus 24:7) – it was for the transgression of both of them that they were exiled, as it is stated: “The king of Assyria exiled Israel.… because they did not heed the voice of the Lord…and they did not heed and did not perform” (II Kings 18:11–12).
“Distance your way from her” (Proverbs 5:8) – he cautioned them to distance harlotry from them. “And do not approach the entrance of her house” (Proverbs 5:8) – he cautioned them regarding forbidden relations, in whose regard it is stated: “Any man of you shall not approach his kin to uncover nakedness” (Leviticus 18:6). “Lest you give your glory [hodekha] to others” (Proverbs 5:9) – they will lose their kingdom, and it will be exalted for the nations. Hodekha is nothing other than kingdom, just as it says: “Upon whom the glory [hod] of kingdom was not placed” (Daniel 11:21). “And your years to the cruel” (Proverbs 5:9) – they gave their years to a cruel angel, as their days and years drew near to being eliminated, just as it says: “You brought your days near and came to the end of your years…” (Ezekiel 22:4). “Lest strangers be sated with your strength” (Proverbs 5:10) – they were exiled from their land, and foreigners settled in their place and consumed their strength and exertion. “Your strength” is nothing other than the strength of their land, as it is stated: “When you work the ground [it will no longer give its strength to you]” (Genesis 4:12). Likewise you find that when the king of Assyria exiled the ten tribes, he settled foreigners in their land, as it is stated: “The king of Assyria brought from Babylon, from Kuta, from Ava, and from Ḥamat, [and Sefarvayim, and he settled them in the cities of Samaria in place of the children of Israel” (II Kings 17:24). That is, “lest strangers be sated with your strength.” “And your toils [vaatzavekha] be in the house of a stranger” (Proverbs 5:10) – toils [atziva] are nothing other than children, just as it says: “In pain [be’etzev] you shall bear children” (Genesis 3:16).
Another matter: “Vaatzavekha” (Genesis 3:16) – this is toil of the land, saying that they will eat with toil everything that they eat in the foreign land, just as it says: “With toil [be’itzavon] you shall eat of it…” (Genesis 3:17). And likewise it says: “The king of Assyria exiled Israel to Assyria…” (II Kings 18:11).
All this befell the ten tribes because they were steeped in harlotry with married woman. It was over that that their sentence was sealed, as it is stated in their regard: “Who lie on beds of ivory, and sprawl [usruḥim] on their couches…” (Amos 6:4); they would sully their beds with semen that was not theirs, as they would swap their wives with one another. What is written thereafter? “Therefore, now they will be exiled at the head of the exiles, and the revelry of the sprawled [seruḥim] will be discontinued” (Amos 6:7). At that time the rejoicing of the seruḥim will be removed. Likewise, Micah prophesied in their regard: “The women of My people you banish [tegareshun] from the house of her delight; from their young children, you take My grandeur forever” (Micah 2:9). The verse relates that they would violate men’s wives and render them forbidden to their husbands, and they would divorce [megareshin] them. That is, “the women of My people you banish [tegareshun] from the house of her delight”; this is the house of her husband, in which she would delight. What is, “from their young children, you take My grandeur forever”? The only grandeur I had in this world was from the young children, as it is stated: “From the mouths of young children and suckling babes You founded strength” (Psalms 8:3). And I am glorified through them, just as it says: “In the multitude of people is the glory of a king” (Proverbs 14:28). But you have rendered them mamzerim; you have voided that glory of mine, as I do not want mamzerim, as it is written: “A mamzer11A mamzer is a child born of a forbidden union punishable by karet, e.g., between a married woman and a man other than her husband. shall not enter the congregation of the Lord…” (Deuteronomy 23:3).
What is written thereafter? “Arise and go, as this is not the resting place; because it was defiled it will destroy you, and it will be an intense destruction [veḥevel nimratz]” (Micah 2:10). The Holy One blessed be He said to them: For the rest of the transgressions I would have shown you forbearance. Because you have spread to adultery, “arise and go….” What is “veḥevel nimratz”? I said: “For the portion of the Lord is His people, Jacob the allotment [ḥevel] of His inheritance” (Deuteronomy 32:9). I took Jacob as My inheritance. He was My portion, because his descendants were all similar to a rope [ḥevel], which is intertwined one with another, as the descent of all of them was traceable to their ancestors, There was no offspring that was not theirs that interrupted between them, as they guarded themselves from adultery and there was no mamzerut there. How so? It is written: “Elazar begot Pinḥas, Pinḥas begot Avishua” (I Chronicles 5:30), and the same is true for all of them. The lineage continued in that manner. But you entered with the wife of another and defiled the inheritance. How can he enumerate: So-and-so, my son, and he is not his son, as he is a mamzer; you severed the rope. That is ḥevel nimratz. What is nimratz? Adulterer [noef], mamzer, wicked one [rasha], oppressor [tzorer].12Nimratz is spelled with the first letters of noef, mamzer, rasha, tzorer. You learned that regarding the ten tribes, their sentence was sealed only due to the iniquity of adultery.
From where is it derived that regarding the tribe of Judah and Benjamin, their sentence was sealed only due to the iniquity of adultery? It is as Jeremiah screams before God: ‘During the days of Menashe, Israel performed wickedness greater than them [of my generation], but You did not destroy them, but rather in my days.’ That is what is written: “My innards, my innards, I shudder, the walls of my heart, [my heart sighs to me]” (Jeremiah 4:19). The Holy One blessed be He said to him: During the days of Menashe, even though they angered Me, the children were the children of their fathers. Now they are the children of lewdness. That is what is written: “For My people are foolish…” (Jeremiah 4:22). What is written at the end of the passage? “They were lustful horses rising early; each would neigh to his neighbor’s wife” (Jeremiah 5:8). Even though they transgressed all the mitzvot and denied the Holy One blessed be He, just as it is stated: “They denied the Lord” (Jeremiah 5:12), He displays forbearance. It is only for the adultery that their sentence was sealed, as, indeed, it is written thereafter: “Will I not reckon for these, the utterance of the Lord…” (Jeremiah 5:9). The Holy One blessed be He said: For everything I will restrain myself, but for lewdness I am angry. I will deliver them to the kingdoms. That is what is written thereafter: “Enter within its walls…” (Jeremiah 5:10). “Lest strangers be sated with your strength” (Proverbs 5:10).
Likewise Moses said to Israel: When you go out to war, be careful that there will not be among you the iniquity of adultery, as if there is the iniquity of lewdness in your midst, the Holy One blessed be He, who wages war on your behalf, will turn away from you, and you will be delivered into the hand of your enemies. That is what is written: “For the Lord your God walks [in the midst of your camp to deliver you and to deliver your enemies before you and your camp shall be holy], and He shall not see a shameful matter among you and turn away from you” (Deuteronomy 23:15). What is, “for the Lord your God”? Moses said to Israel: Know that the Holy One blessed be He associates His name with Israel, as He is called, “your God,” only when “your camp shall be holy.” At that time, He rests His Divine Presence in your midst, and He rescues you from the hands of your enemies and delivers your enemies to you. That is what is written: “Walks in the midst of your camp to deliver you…”
From where is it derived that Israel is called holy when they protect themselves from adultery and lewdness? It is as it is written: “You shall sanctify yourselves, and you shall be holy, as I am the Lord your God” (Leviticus 20:7). From here, when they are holy, He is God to them. What is written thereafter? “You shall observe My statutes, and perform them; I am the Lord who sanctifies you” (Leviticus 20:8). When does the Holy One blessed be He sanctify Israel? It is when they observe His statutes. What are the statutes? These are the forbidden relations, as adultery with a married woman is written first, as it is stated: “A man who will commit adultery [with a married woman]” (Leviticus 20:10). What did it see that led it to have cursing one’s father or mother interpose between sanctification and adultery? It is because initially it is written: “For each man who shall curse his father” (Leviticus 20:9). What causes the son to curse his father? It is adultery. It is because he believes that his mother’s husband is his father and he honors him, and he believes that the adulterer is not his father and he curses him.
Similarly, you say: “One who strikes his father or his mother.… One who abducts a man and sells him.[… One who curses his father or his mother…]” (Exodus 21:15–17). What did it see that led it to have one who abducts a person interpose between one who strikes and one who curses? Would it not have been appropriate not to interpose between them, as both are stated regarding a punishment generated by his father and his mother? Why did it do so? It is to teach you that it is for this that one who abducts an Israelite person incurs liability, because he [the person abducted] strikes his father and his mother and curses them because he did not grow up with them and does not know them. Here too, this is why cursing one’s father interposes between sanctification and harlotry. It is because anyone who consorts with one of the forbidden relations stated in the Torah, at times he begets a son and causes the mamzer to curse his father.
Why does it mention the cursing of the mother; does he not recognize his mother? When does he recognize his mother? When the mamzer is from adultery with a married woman, as the adulteress attributes him to her husband. However, regarding all other unmarried forbidden relations, they cast their child in the streets due to the shame, and others raise them. Those mamzerim recognize neither their father nor their mother. Even a mamzer from a married woman occasionally recognizes neither his father nor his mother. When? It is when she committed adultery while her husband was in lands overseas and she casts him away. That is why the Torah punishes one who consorts with a married woman or with forbidden relations with court-imposed execution and karet. That is why it is stated: “And your camp shall be holy” (Deuteronomy 23:15).
Another matter: “And your camp shall be holy” (Deuteronomy 23:15) – we learned there: One need not investigate from the altar13Priests and beyond, from the platform14Levites and beyond, nor from the Sanhedrin and beyond. Anyone whose ancestors were public officials or charity collectors may marry into the priesthood, and there is no need to investigate them. Rabbi Yosei says: The same is true of one who had signed as a witness in the old court of Tzippori. Rabbi Ḥanina ben Antigonus says: The same is true of one who was written in the army roster of a Jewish king.15Kiddushin 76a. The midrash is stating that one can rely on all these individuals’ presumptive status of unflawed lineage.
It is written: “You shall place a king over you…” (Deuteronomy 17:15). I have derived only a king of Israel; from where is it derived to include public officials, charity collectors, judges’ scribes, and floggers with the strap? The verse states: “From among your brethren you shall place a king over you” (Deuteronomy 17:15) – anyone whom you place over you, shall be only from among your brethren, from the select of your brethren. Rabbi Shmuel bar Naḥman says in the name of Rabbi Yonatan: From where is it derived that those going out to war need that no mamzerim be in their midst? It is as it is written regarding the descendants of Asher: “Their lineage for military service” (I Chronicles 7:40) – the merit of their lineage stands for them in war.
To this point it is from the texts of tradition;16Prophets and Writings. from the words of the Torah, from where is it derived? It is as it is written: “One with crushed […testicles]…shall not enter [into the assembly of the Lord]. A mamzer shall not enter.… An Amonite shall not enter.… Do not despise an Edomite.… [Sons born to them of the third generation may enter…]” (Deuteronomy 23:2–4, 8–9). What is written thereafter? “When a camp shall go out against your enemy” (Deuteronomy 23:10); that is why it is written: “And your camp shall be holy…” (Deuteronomy 23:15), that there shall not be in their midst mamzerim and not those who are born not in sanctity, because the Holy One blessed be He does not associate His name with them and does not aid them in war. So, the Holy One blessed be He said to Abraham our patriarch: “I will give to you and to your descendants after you the land of your residence” (Genesis 17:8) – to those descendants whose descent will be traced back to you, I will give them “the land of your residence…as an eternal possession” (Genesis 17:8), and I will be their God. But mamzerim, whose descent is not traced back to you, as their forebears are not distinguishable, I will not be their God, as I do not associate My name with them and I will not give them a portion in the land.
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