תּלמוד אויף איוב 15:34

Rabbi Elazar also said: Any company in which there is flattery is as despicable as a menstruating woman, as it says, "For the company of the godless [flatterer] shall be desolate," since in the cities by the sea, a menstruating woman is called "desolate (galmuda)." What does galmuda mean? That she is "separated (gemula from her husband.

Rabbi Elazar also said: Any company in which there is flattery will eventually be exiled. It says here, "For the company of the godless [flatterer] shall be desolate," and it says there (Isaiah 49:21), "Who hath begotten me these, Seeing I have been bereaved of my children, and am solitary, An exile, and wandering to and fro? etc."