Musar zu Dewarim 25:7
וְאִם־לֹ֤א יַחְפֹּץ֙ הָאִ֔ישׁ לָקַ֖חַת אֶת־יְבִמְתּ֑וֹ וְעָלְתָה֩ יְבִמְתּ֨וֹ הַשַּׁ֜עְרָה אֶל־הַזְּקֵנִ֗ים וְאָֽמְרָה֙ מֵאֵ֨ין יְבָמִ֜י לְהָקִ֨ים לְאָחִ֥יו שֵׁם֙ בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל לֹ֥א אָבָ֖ה יַבְּמִֽי׃
Und wenn der Mann seinen Bruder nicht mitnehmen möchte's Frau, dann sein Bruder'Die Frau soll zu den Ältesten zum Tor hinaufgehen und sagen: 'Mein Ehemann's Bruder weigert sich, seinem Bruder einen Namen in Israel zu geben; er wird nicht die Pflicht eines Ehemannes erfüllen's Bruder zu mir.'
Shemirat HaLashon
And thus is it stated (Yevamoth 105b): "R. Chiyya and R. Shimon ben Rebbi were sitting [in the house of study] … R. Yishmael ben R. Yossi came to them … In the interim, Rebbi came to the academy [and all had to sit in their places]. These (R. Chiyya and R. Shimon], who were agile, [quickly] sat in their places; R. Yishmael ben R. Yossi, being heavy, had to step [over those who were seated to get to his place], whereupon Avdan called out: 'Who is this that steps over the heads of the holy people!' R. Yishmael: 'I, Yishmael ben R. Yossi, who has come to learn Torah from the mouth of Rebbi!' Avdan: 'Are you worthy of learning Torah from the mouth of Rebbi!' R. Yishmael: 'And was Moses worthy of learning Torah from the Almighty?' Avdan: 'Are you Moses!' R. Yishmael: 'Is your teacher [(Rebbi)] G-d!' …In the interim, a yevamah [a woman slated for levirate marriage] came before Rebbi for chalitzah [release from levirate marriage], whereupon he said to Avdan: 'Go and have her examined' [for pubertal signs (to see if she is fit for chalitzah)]. At this, R. Yishmael b. Yossi said: [This is not necessary.] 'Thus did father say: "The man" is stated by Scripture in the section [on chalitzah (Devarim 25:7)], but as far as the woman is concerned, whether she be grown or a minor [the chalitzah is valid].'" Hereupon, Rebbi called Avdan back, saying: 'It is not necessary [to examine her]; the elder [R. Yossi] has already ruled.' As Avdan stepped [over those who were seated to return to his place], R. Yishmael ben R. Yossi said to him: 'Let him of whom the holy people have need step over the heads of the holy people; but how should he of whom the holy people have no need step over the heads of the holy people!' — whereupon Rebbi said to Avdan: 'Remain in your place.' It was taught: 'At that time, Avdan was smitten with leprosy [(the punishment for lashon hara)], his two sons drowned, and his two daughters-in-law [(who had been betrothed when minors)] had their marriage annulled."
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