לֹֽא־תִקֹּ֤ם וְלֹֽא־תִטֹּר֙ אֶת־בְּנֵ֣י עַמֶּ֔ךָ וְאָֽהַבְתָּ֥ לְרֵעֲךָ֖ כָּמ֑וֹךָ אֲנִ֖י יְהוָֽה׃
Janganlah engkau membalas dendam dan janganlah engkau menyimpan dendam terhadap orang-orang sebangsamu, tetapi engkau harus mengasihi sesamamu seperti dirimu sendiri. Akulah Yang Mahakekal.
Tosefta Sotah
One who betroths a woman out of embarrassment to her father [or] to her relatives -- at the end she will bury him. Similarly, a woman who becomes betrothed to him out of embarrassment to his father [or] to his relatives -- at the end he will bury her. Rabbi Meir would say, one who marries a woman who is improper for him transgresses on account of five negative commandments: (1) on account of "do not take vengeance" (Lev. 19:18); (2) and on account of "do not harbor a grudge" (ibid.); (3) "do not be hateful toward your brother in your heart" (Lev. 19:17); (4) "you shall love your neighbor as yourself" (Lev. 19:18); and (5) "your brother shall live with you" (see Lev. 25:35). And not only that, but he causes the [fulfillment of the commandment] to be fruitful and multiply to be removed from the world.