Midrash su Geremia 22:10

R. Juda said in the name of Rab: "Whoever mourns too much over a death, the result will be that he will mourn for another death. There was a certain woman in the neighborhood of R. Huna who had seven sons. It happened that one of them died, and the mother did not stop weeping after him. R. Huna send her word not to weep so much, but she did not heed him. He sent her word again, saying: 'If you will listen [and stop weeping] very well; but if not, then prepare the shrouds for another son.' But she kept on weeping until her seven sons died. R. Huna sent her another message: to prepare the shrouds for herself. She finally died." (Jer. 22, 10) Weep ye not for the dead, neither bemoan him. This means. Weep ye not for the dead too much; neither bemoan him, not more than the [usual] measure. How much ought it be? Three days for weeping, seven days for eulogy, and thirty days to abstain from dressing in fine laundered clothes and taking haircuts. After that period the Holy One, praised be He! sayeth: "You need not have mercy on him more than I."

(Gen. 25:32:) AND ESAU SAID: LOOK, I AM GOING TO DIE. Abraham is dead; yet the Holy Spirit says (in Jer. 22:10): DO NOT WEEP FOR ONE WHO IS DEAD < … > WEEP BITTERLY FOR ONE WHO IS GOING AWAY. (Gen. 25:32, cont.:) SO WHAT IS THE USE OF THIS BIRTHRIGHT TO ME? Now the Holy Spirit says (in Ps. 109:17): SINCE HE LOVED A CURSE, IT HAS COME UPON HIM; SINCE HE DID NOT FIND PLEASURE IN BLESSING, IT IS FAR FROM HIM. How did the first-born sacrifice? (Zev. 14:4:) BEFORE THE TABERNACLE WAS ERECTED < … > THE SACRIFICIAL SERVICE WAS < PERFORMED > BY THE FIRST-BORN.¹⁷The complete sentence from the Mishnah is quoted in Bekh. 4b; below, 6:12; PR 5:9; Gen. R. 63:13; Numb. R. 4:8. See also PRE 8. Moreover, everyone who offered sacrifice was worthy of being blessed, as stated (in Exod. 20:21 [24]): < YOU SHALL MAKE ME > AN ALTAR OF EARTH…. < AND IN EVERY PLACE WHERE I HAVE MY NAME MENTIONED > I WILL COME UNTO YOU AND BLESS YOU. Esau said: This man wants neither to sacrifice nor to be blessed. The prophet said to him (in Ezek. 35:6): SURELY YOU HAVE HATED BLOOD; SO BLOOD SHALL PURSUE YOU. R. Levi said in the name of R. Hanina ben Hama: This is the blood of the sacrifices which he hated to sacrifice to the Holy One. But our masters say: This is the blood of circumcision, since he stretched his foreskin (to undo his circumcision). Thus it is stated (in Ps. 55:21 [20]): HE HAS PUT FORTH HIS HAND AGAINST HIS WHOLENESS AND PROFANED HIS COVENANT.

(Fol. 115) R. Jochanan said in the name of R. Simon b. Jochai: "He who leaves no son to succeed him, the Holy One, praised be He! is filled with anger at him, for it is written here (Num. 27, 8) Then shall ye cause his inheritance to pass (Haabartem), and it is written there (Zeph. 1, 15) That day is a day of wrath (Ebrah)." (Ps. 55, 20) Those who leave no changes fear no God. R, Jochanan and R. Joshua b. Levi differ. According to one a son is meant, and according to the other a disciple. We can infer that R. Jochanan is the one who holds that it refers to a disciple; for R. Jochanan said: "This is the bone of my tenth son [whom I have buried]." The inference is sustained. Now, if R. Jochanan refers to a disciple then R. Joshua b. Levi refers to a son, if so, why do we find that R. Joshua b. Levi did not go to a funeral unless the deceased was childless, because it is written (Jer. 22, 10) Weep sorely for him that goeth away, which R. Juda in the name of Rab interpreted to refer to one who passeth away without a son! It must be concluded that R. Joshua b. Levi was the one who said it refers to a disciple. Now since R. Joshua b. Levi is the one who holds it refers to a disciple, we must say that R. Jochanan is the one who holds it refers to a son. If so, then it means that R. Jochanan contradicts himself, [for above it was inferred that he held it referred to a disciple]. This is not difficult to explain, for one he said in his own name, and the other in the name of his teacher.