כִּ֤י גֶֽחָלִ֗ים אַ֭תָּה חֹתֶ֣ה עַל־רֹאשׁ֑וֹ וַֽ֝יהוָ֗ה יְשַׁלֶּם־לָֽךְ׃
그리하는 것은 핀 숯으로 그의 머리에 놓는 것과 일반이요 여호와께서는 네게 상을 주시리라
Likutei Moharan
Through a person elevating their fellow with merits, it is possible that their fellow will relent from their ways and change for the good, eliminating all future machloket. It is possible, too, however, that they will experience a downfall. This is because this process of finding merits in another can "be [like] scooping coals on his head." [Mishle 25:22].