창세기 25:20 미드라쉬: Shir HaShirim Rabbah, Midrash Aggadah, Vayikra Rabbah & Pesikta Rabbati

“Like a lily among the thorns, so is my love among the girls” (Song of Songs 2:2).
“Like a lily among the thorns,” Rabbi Yitzḥak interpreted the verse regarding Rebecca, as it is stated: “Isaac was forty years old, and he took Rebecca, daughter of Betuel the Aramaean of Padan Aram, the sister of Laban the Aramaean, [to be his wife]” (Genesis 25:20). If it is to teach that she was from Padan Aram, why does the verse state: “Sister of Laban the Aramean”?¹⁴Why does the verse emphasize that her father was an Aramean and her brother was an Aramean and that she was from Padan Aram? Rather, her father was a swindler [ramai], her brother was a swindler, and the people of her area were swindlers, and this righteous woman emerged from their midst. To what is she comparable? It is to a “lily among the thorns.”
Rabbi Pinḥas said in the name of Rabbi Simon: It is written: “Isaac sent Jacob and he went to Padan Aram, to Laban son of Betuel the Aramean,” thereby including all of them in swindling.¹⁵By mentioning “Aramean” at the end of the verse, it implies that all those mentioned in the verse were swindlers. Yet Jacob did not learn from their corrupt ways (Etz Yosef).

And Isaac was 40 years old. Why ? Because he was 37 years old when he was bound (to be sacrificed), on account of which his mother, Sarah, died. And at that same time, Abraham was told that Rebecca had been born, and Isaac waited 3 years for Rebecca, because a woman is not suitable for marriage younger than 3 years old.

Sister of Laban the Aramean. And since the verse already said, "the daughter of Bethuel the Aramean", didn't I know that she is the sister of Laban? And wasn't it already stated, "and to Rebecca's brother, and his name is Laban", rather it is to teach you of Rebecca's righteousness, that she was the daughter of Bethuel, who was a deceiver, and the sister of Laban, who was a deceiver, and she did not learn from their bad deeds.