לֹֽא־תִשְׂנָ֥א אֶת־אָחִ֖יךָ בִּלְבָבֶ֑ךָ הוֹכֵ֤חַ תּוֹכִ֙יחַ֙ אֶת־עֲמִיתֶ֔ךָ וְלֹא־תִשָּׂ֥א עָלָ֖יו חֵֽטְא׃
Janganlah engkau membenci saudaramu di dalam hatimu; engkau harus benar-benar menegur sesamamu, dan janganlah engkau menanggung dosa karena dia.
Tosefta Sotah
One who betroths a woman out of embarrassment to her father [or] to her relatives -- at the end she will bury him. Similarly, a woman who becomes betrothed to him out of embarrassment to his father [or] to his relatives -- at the end he will bury her. Rabbi Meir would say, one who marries a woman who is improper for him transgresses on account of five negative commandments: (1) on account of "do not take vengeance" (Lev. 19:18); (2) and on account of "do not harbor a grudge" (ibid.); (3) "do not be hateful toward your brother in your heart" (Lev. 19:17); (4) "you shall love your neighbor as yourself" (Lev. 19:18); and (5) "your brother shall live with you" (see Lev. 25:35). And not only that, but he causes the [fulfillment of the commandment] to be fruitful and multiply to be removed from the world.